I found this picture over the weekend. It was from when I was innocent enough to believe that black people were black because they had been struck by lightning. You will have to read the book to get the rest of that story, or at least this old post. There is such a purity in not knowing. I don’t have but a couple of pictures of me as a child because foster care wasn’t conducive to keeping up with those and most of my siblings and cousins got what few my grandparents had in their possession.
This one is from 1966. It was before the first real tragedy in my life, when innocence was the essence in the eyes that had cried few real tears.
I was babysitting this weekend and it occurred to me that children are so very innocent. They only know what they learn as they grow, and each is influenced by their own little world that expands as they mature. Though not a perfect love, I am reminded of Ovid’s Myth…parental artists, we are, that we could mold them and shape them into perfection, but that doesn’t happen, and it shouldn’t.…reality is that they are formed by their own uniqueness and their own experiences. They are a gift to us that we give back to the world one day.
There are so many avenues for advice these days with access to the internet, other media, and all of the Mommy Blogs. All we can truly do is to try to teach them sound values and morals, give them something to believe in, and trust that they will find their way.
It’s a shame that you don’t have more pictures of yourself.
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This is one of only three. One is me and my older sister in the bathtub naked. The other is me and my older sister holding our Easter baskets. It is a shame. I would love to be able to share them with my grandchildren. That’s what brought this one out. Jalina asked me, “Grandmother, were you ever a little girl?”
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Funny when they ask that.
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It was funny, because I told her that I was and she said, “No you weren’t, you were a little boy!” So I had to find a picture to show her. I was glad I actually had some hair and looked a little girlish in it, because they kept my hair whacked off all through my childhood. (I was a bit of a Tomboy.) I did not let my hair get long until about the seventh grade.
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I don’t follow why they would keep your hair short if you were a Tomboy.
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Tangles from swinging in the trees, and swimming in the creeks…too hot and sweaty outside, stayed dirty all of the time…too much trouble to brush out.
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Makes some sense.
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Have you ever worn long hair?
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In college. Freshman year, I got a haircut and it ended up being a buzzcut. So, I just made sure it was out of my eyes and ears.
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LOL…it’s a chore, long hair, and mine is fine and straight, so when I wake up in the morning or get out of the shower it takes me fifteen to twenty minutes just to comb through it…it’s a bitch, but I like it. I have learned to keep the chewing gum out of it though.
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I didn’t do much for it. I need low or no maintenance hairstyles.
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I wasn’t a tomboy but my mom would always threaten to cut my hair if I didn’t pull it back into a ponytail. Eventually it got cut 🙂 Cute picture of you!
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Thanks. It just occurred to me that it is the only picture that I have of me alone. I should frame it to remind my granddaughter that I was once a little girl.
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That would be a very nice gift for her 🙂
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Thank you for the follow. I hope you will visit again soon and often. Namaste
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I do love learning about other cultures and India is on my bucket list of places I would love to journey to. The people are so very warm and spiritual. In my studies on theology/religion, I find their religious background to be the most interesting in this world.
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Incredible India! I hope you go sooner rather than later. You might enjoy my post pilgrimage city. . . Veranasj and Golden Temple 1 and2 in March archives. . . Namaste
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I will look through them from time to time. Enjoying the connection.
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Me, too!
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Adults have a huge responsibility to nurture children
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The influence/responsibility we have is enormous.
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But so rewarding
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Oh yes, definitely rewarding!!!
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You were so cute. So, not much has changed except that innocence.
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Oh definitely that innocence is gone…hehe
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You are still innocent…compared to me
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You say that but you just don’t know. I was sort of innocent in many ways until I was divorced for the second time at age 36. My fortieth birthday was the best. I was served my birthday cake by a tall black man in a white cowboy hat wearing nothing but chaps in a room with a fishbowl full of condoms on the coffee table. I could write the rest of that story on The Community Storyboard this week.
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And you should…I should tell you some secrets some time.
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We could probably have some good laughs…it’s fun to look back and be able to laugh until your sides ache.
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Oh, We need to do this soon
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LOL 🙂 Let’s
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About your childhood photo: Sweet innocence comes to mind.
About the myth: Pgymalion! Love the myth, the story, and the GBShaw play!
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Thanks. Pygmalion! It is one of my favorite stories of all time, and interestingly, there are so many variations on the ending. On my old computer, I had a page bookmarked that had dozens of artistic representations of Ovid’s Myth and different endings to the story. I wish I still had that link. Haven’t been able to find it again.
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It’s kinda sad when most of our conversations start “Well. I remember…”. I wanna see the bath tub one! LOL!!
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It’s not all that enticing.
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LOL! I sent you a message on Facebook about your book…
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I’ll have to check that out.
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That is such a sweet photo of you! It’s great that your grandchildren have you in their lives–and I’m imagine you’ve taken many photos. 🙂
This morning I saw this post from you mentioning Ovid, and a message from my daughters’ high school Latin teacher about a get-together we’re going to have. (Both daughters have now graduated from college.) Pygmalion is a fun and interesting story in all of its guises–from Ovid to Shaw to Lerner and Lowe.
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Thanks you. I agree.
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You were such a cutie 🙂
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Thanks! I think all little kids are cuties.
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